Direct TV remote

My wife and I have 3 TVs on the direct tv system our bedroom tv has 2 remotes programmed so each of us could do what we want. I’ll call those ( peanut remotes). In our living room we had two of the longer remotes , which are a thousand times better. One remote was working perfectly the other was old and the corners were cracked and the numbers 2,7 would not work. I tried programming another long remote we had in the house. — did not work— I called customer service and they eventually sent me a new longer remote as a replacement. Could not program that one either. Customer service said that hat remote is no longer compatible with my receiver. So they sent me two peanuts. When I received them I programmed one the other would not program , the got some specialist from VIETNAM. After all the (Edited per community guidelines) for a week and a half this guy tells me that only one remote per receiver could be programmed. After all that